Friday, November 30, 2007

Toughest Questions and Objections

Sent: 2007-11-30 07:47:22 (PST)
To: buzzard@bayardtayloronline.com
Subject: Toughest Questions and Objections

"Before you dive, get the big picture."

Fellow buzzards,

Christians are often accused of "giving answers to questions nobody is asking."

Something I've taken to doing -- that I highly recommend you do as well -- is to pas out 3x5 cards to groups of people and have them write "For Me" on one side and "From Others" on the other.

On the "For Me" side, I ask them to write down the one or two toughest questions or objections to Christian faith for them personally.

On the "From Others" side, I ask them to write down the one or two toughest questions or objections to Christian faith that they get from their friends, teachers, study, media, or whatever other source.

Interestingly, I've found (a) that the toughest questions and objections are pretty much the same from place to place and age group to age group; and that (b) almost all of them derive from unchallenged worldview assumptions.

Which shows again that this worldview stuff is super-important!

What I do with the list:

1. If I've done this exercise at the beginning of a series of talks, I try to tailor my remarks to the questons that are bothering people, showing exactly how the worldview questions relate to the worldview perspective I'm trying to get across.

2. If I do this exercise during a talk, I can use the cards as a jumping-off place for Q&A or group discussions.

3. If I do this exercise toward the end of a talk, I collect the list, type it up and share it with the group leader.

Here's a list of questions compiled from my recent speaking engagement with students from the University of Kentucky who came to a fall retreat on worldviews (September 21-23, 2007).

"FOR ME"
1. “The problem of evil” How can a perfect God create a sinful world while being all-knowing?
2. What make it (Christianity?) so great?
3. How is Biblical Christianity different from modern day interpretation and how we worship?
4. How do you keep the passion for God?
5. Is God ok with my doubt?
6. Will it ever be easier?
7. What does Christ say about Catholicism? How do you show someone that the Bible is all true?
8. Help me understand being baptized by the Holy Ghost
9. How to talk to a non-Christian friend about the Lord without completely blowing them (or perspective) off?
10. Why are some Christians so judgmental?
11. How are all religions related?
12. Does it really matter what denomination of Christianity one belongs to?
13. What is the BEST way to combat those who question our faith?
14. How do you fight your way out of a prayer slump?
15. How is the Trinity possible?
16. Did Jesus always struggle with the fact that He would be sacrificed for humankind?
17. How do I portray a Christian attitude all the time?
18. If it’s so irresistible, why do so many resist?
19. How do you combat the doubts that the Bible is real and from God?
20. Can you re-receive the Holy Spirit?
21. Can you lose your salvation?
22. How do I defend it from others?
23. How does Christianity fit in with other religions?
24. Why do different denom. Debate and argue all the time?
25. How do you hear God speak to you?
26. How do I get closer, more intimate with God?
27. Why election?
28. How exactly does the Trinity work?


"FROM OTHERS"
1. Christians are nothing but a bunch of hypocrites (6X)
2. If I’m happy, why do I need Jesus?
3. How can “good people” who aren’t Christians possibly not go to Heaven?
4. Why does a loving God allow suffering?
5. How do you know Christianity is the right religion?
6. How do we KNOW it’s true? (2X)
7. Christianity is all about rules
8. That most Christians are hypocrites
9. How do you know the Bible is from God?
10. What about the other religions? Where do they fit in?
11. How do you handle being in academia and Christian? Christian’s can’t be both intellectuals and Christians.
12. How can a book that old really apply?
13. Why do I need to believe in a God?
14. Many people believe that Christianity represents a hateful closed group
15. There’s too many things you can’t do if you are a Christian
16. How can there be a God with so much pain?
17. If someone consciously sins, they can’t be a Christian
18. Why should I turn my life to God?
19. Christianity is narrow minded
20. Why is Christianity different that other religions?
21. How can Christianity and science coincide (coexist?)
22. How do you know your God is the right God?
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University of Kentucky Fall Retreat recap

Sent: 2007-11-30 07:26:47 (PST)
To: buzzard@bayardtayloronline.com
Subject: University of Kentucky Fall Retreat recap

"Before you dive, get the big picture."

Fellow Buzzards,

It's been a little nutty around here and I haven't sent anything since August! But that doesn't mean a lot hasn't been going on.

September 21-23 I had the opportunity to speak four times to an outstanding group of students from the University of Kentucky.

What a great weekend! And what a great staff (John Strange presiding as Campus Director). One of the great things about it was that everybody who came got a copy of the book Blah, Blah, Blah: Making Sense of the World's Spiritual Chatter.

It was a challenge to figure out how to divvy up the four talks (lots of good possibilities; how to choose well). After consultation with John Strange, we decided to go with the following:

* Worldview Zoo
* Common Ground
* How To Talk To Absolutely Anybody
* Trinity, Schminity

This turned out to be a great set for a college group. Worldview Zoo introduced the topic of worldview and the six basic worldviews. Common Ground hit at how to deal with the "culture of tolerance" which often isn't so tolerant toward Christians. How To Talk To Absolutely Anybody was about conversations and trusting the Holy Spirit. And Trinity, Schminity was about valuing the crown jewel of Christian doctrine.

We even had a chance to pull off the humorous Ancient Near East Cosmology Skit at a bonfire by the lake on Friday night.

On Saturday night, they put on a "Tacky Prom." People had gone to thrift stores and got all dolled up in really tacky stuff -- lots of sequense and scarves; you get the idea. Totally fun time.

If you'd like to hear more, let me know.

If you'd like to book me to come and speak at your event, please let me know.

If you'd like to get a few free books, here's a little promo I'm doing and you'll be the first to get in on it. But you'll have to move fast because I don't have that many books to give away. Here's how it will work:
1. You send me an email with the names of up to six people you think are strategic leaders ("dry tinder") who would see the value of Blah, Blah, Blah and would consider getting the book for their group ("start little Blah wildfires").
2. You also agree to get the books that I'll be sending you to the people in plenty of time for Christmas break.
3. I send you the books and you follow through.

How does that sound, fellow buzzards?